Key Points:
Past Pain
Bruises of the past
Environment and family
Nurture love
Have an obligation to do something with what you're given
What is so important in your life.
Remember where you came from
Introduction:
Sometimes past pains, bruises, family circumstances can be a hindrance/barriers to taking the deep.
Everyone must experience a period of decay before germination. A seed must be planted, it goes through a period of decay before it sprouts, then ripens to a fruit. "Truly I tell you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains just a grain of wheat, but if it dies, it produces much fruits" John 12:24. That is to say that I can still move from my current position to where I need to be. There must be a bending/crushing point for the realisation to hit you, before you take the plunge.
WHAT IS IT THAT IS HOLDING ME BACK
Think about:
- Anything, something big you can recall about your past /childhood that could be the key to your future,
- It could form your life
- Make you thick
- Stabilizes you
- Positive or Negative
DON'T FORGET THE HARD TIMES... these are crucial, when you reflect on these, they help you to make amends so mistakes of the past are not repeated. We learn from past errors and/or other peoples experiences.
Knowing the right time to make a move is very crucial.
You can be what you dream of becoming with a little push. Don't dwell much on your past experiences or wounds, for they can weigh you down. They are negative pulling effects/factors to your progress and success. Some people stay too long on the ground level, wallowing in their hurts ... bang! bang!! bang!!! time flies, and you hear a scream that sounds like... Oh dear, if I had known, I should have done, xyz... but, you know what? lost times cannot be regained.
Who said you can't make it?
You can achieve those goals,
You Can, because it is written for you.
Aspire and dream big, and start small, it doesn't matter but you will get there some day.
Pick up your pieces, don't look back, accept any helping hand that reaches out to you
Goal setting
Learn to set goals, vitualising your future, developing a mindset of being successful in life no matter what and of course HARD work matters. Success does not happen in a day, many successful men and women invested much into their business for growth.
According to Denise Waitley (1990) Psychology of Success doesn’t take a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, it asks you to take an active role in defining what is right for you as an individual. psychology of success
Work on your self-confidence/Self-esteem
The individual matters. You must first have a 'brand'
Brand yourself to how you would like to be seen as,
Market your brand, the 'New You'
Label your brand
. It doesn't matter how long, but keep your mind onto your goal..... just ask yourself ......
- Where am I going?"
- What am I hoping to be
- Be consistent
- Remain focused until you achieve your PURPOSE
- Thrive for the BEST
- God rewards consistency, obedience and patience
The Rock
Who is your ROCK?
You must have a role model, a MOTIVATOR that can boast your confidence. It could be that childhood experiences have left a negative mark on your confidence, you therefore need someone to lift you up.
- First seek out people who can motivate you, move from your current level,
- Check out websites and be around friends with positive thinking vibes.
Know that you can accomplish whatever you want if you put your mind to it. So... WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Make use of available OPPORTUNITY
Take up any opportunity that comes your way as saying goes, "opportunity comes but once". These could be retraining, trying that business you've always had your heart and mind on. Start small and gradually see yourself grow in it, start a savings scheme and talk to professionals for support.
- read motivational books,
- research on websites
FRIENDS vs FUTURE
- The friends you meet today could potentially shape/determine your future.
TIME: is of essence. Use your time effectively and efficiently to affect others
Any wasted time can NEVER be regained.
So THINK it, Act it... ACTION
In order to make a start and progress, you must be :
- Focused +Disciplined = DREAM
- What does the future hold. no one can ever ascertain the future, but that future is what and how you get started today.
My big take here is taking RISKS
I remember my late father's advice when I shared my plan to change jobs from one multi-national organisation to a private sector back in the 1990's. I had brought home an appointment letter having attended an interview without his knowledge. I was worried he wouldn't consent to me leaving the current job, however he clearly stated.." there are risks, but they are worth taking. If you don't take risks, you would not learn from them. So go for it my daughter".. I was surprised at his words.That was the beginning of my successful career. The ability to recognize when change is required and move on, keep moving until the goal is achieved. This is what life is all about.
Are you feeling less motivated in your current job? Is it time to move to another level or try something better?
Age shouldn't be a barrier.
Personal experience: I originally trained as a Secretary/Personal Assistant and had worked in this area for over 25 years before I thought about my next STEPS.
A friend visited my office and shared a story of a man who went back to University at age 50. That struck me hard.. that was my turning point. That was the day I made the conscious decision to retrain.
So at age 40, I started my Access to Social Work program and got a University admission to where I obtained my Social Work degree. Since then, the sky has been my limit.
So you see, anything is possible through Jesus Christ who strengthens me and you. With God all things are possible. Just ask for the grace and leave the rest to God your maker who knows your innermost thoughts. Just surrender your will to HIS WILL. Trust me, you will never be lost.
No one says it's going to be easy, but when you learn to give your all to God, your desires and aspirations will be perfected.
💟We're all cross bearer and some of us have already had our shares of such, they come in various forms during our lifetime, but so are the Crown of Glory on our heads, which can be attained if we're determined and work hard towards our dreams and aspirations.
TARGETS
When you change targets, everything changes. It's like changing the captains of a ship or an aircraft. You must take control of your life, be the driver, DO NOT someone else drive you or steer your ship to destruction... TAKE CONTROL
Hitting the ROCK Bottom
- Remember when you hit the rock bottom,
DO NOT GIVE UP NO MATTER WHAT.. may stand in your way... just trust in God and believe in yourself.
Learn to stand firm
- Keep Standing
= Don't give up
+Just keep standing.
WHAT MATTERS IS HOW YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE.!!!!!!!!!
God bless you and thank you
Madonna Everest. ...
